I think I can get out of my comfort zone for a bit and talk about the things that really annoy me about people
I am known to be a very peaceful person, I doubt anyone who knows me could count the times I fought with them, or if I said a rude comment – either online or in real life – and I normally do let most of the things slip away, but there are boundaries – and moments where I just can’t take shit anymore – that tend to be broken at certain points.
1- Rude comments\comebacks:
I have one big rule in my life, if you don’t REALLY know me ( we talk rarely, very often, only comment on each other’s pictures ) don’t you dare speak to me as one of your closest friends, that means calling me names, trying to act rude towards me and so on. That is probably one of the main things that make me get really pissed off at someone. I do not answer rude at you nor talk in a bad tone when you are around, so don’t speak to me as if I am one of your
littlebitches thinking that it’s all cool and I will laugh about it. No, I won’t. It will just make me angry and probably talk shit back at you.
2- Show offs\people who like to speak about themselves:
If you really know me you would know that I not once have talked about how pretty my hair is, how good my grades are, how perfect of a person I am. I don’t talk about myself because no one likes a show off! You can ask me and I will gladly answer! But if you come up to me and say things like ( my English is sooo perfect like everyone keeps asking me like where did I like learn it like…\ do you see this dress? I bought it for like 5093408
mollars -just made that up- and people just can’t stop asking me about it god! \ My hair is so messy urgh I hate it * while hair is perfectly set up, blow dried and shiny*. I do not give a flying fuck how perfect you are, because let me tell you one thing…speaking like that about yourself just makes you lose all the points you have.
3- Attention seekers:
If I encounter one of these, let me be clear…we are never ever ever getting back together. If you want attention, go seek it from someone else, don’t come nagging to me talking about how good your shit is *go read #2 again* because that just doesn’t work with me.
Also, girls, stop acting\laughing\winking\giggling differently around guys just to get their attention, it doesn’t just make you look bad, it makes me look bad as well for standing next to you or even knowing you.
4- Wannabees &
I am a person of my own kind, so are you. Stop trying to do the things I do or the things other people do just because it makes you look more cool or more hip. Nothing is more annoying than someone who wants to steal your own lifestyle or rhythm
5- Shit talkers:
Another lovely word for bullshit talkers. If you don’t know me don’t judge me, if you want to get to know me, I am more than happy to tell you the things you want to know, even though let me tell you…you are not losing anything if you don’t want to speak to me.
Now, to let that to the side, allow me to explain the 5 things I really appreciate in a person! Shall we?
All the good things start with the letter R! Roller skates, Roses and Respect! What you give me you receive, I treat everyone with respect ( sometimes more respect than they deserve ) and that is exactly what I expect in return. Treat me kindly, be polite to me, don’t raise your voice, smile, be gentle, know your limits, and trust me I shall do the exact thing to you and even more. Respect is always the thing that makes or breaks my relationship with people
2- High tolerance
I am the kind of person who gets angry quickly and gets effected by the negative energy caused by the people around her. The solution to number one is either A- do not piss me off, or B- don’t fuel me. To fix number 2 is A- do not show me that you are upset and shut up about it, instead speak to me, let me try and help you. I think it is hard for people not to show that they are upset\off mood, but I tend to expect high things from them because I try not to show that I am off mood so that I won’t annoy those around me.
3- Friends in need, friends indeed
Help me when I need help, even a small word or a smile, a tap on the shoulder or a hug could fix my day and make me feel better sometimes
4- People who tend to open up my eyes
I have a couple of friends like that, people who tend to show me what is wrong and what is right, friends who take my hands, slap me in the face
not literally and tell me that that person is a hoe and I should stop being around them. I appreciate these people
5- Jealous bunnies
I call them that because bunnies are cute, and bunnies don’t get jealous. Which means these people do not get jealous. I know it can be hard not to like something that another person have, but show me genuinely that you are happy for me, and I will seriously love you
Take this as a reference, as a golden earring and wear it all them time when you meet me or talk to me, to avoid any unwanted attention…